She has learned to deal with solitude and uncomfortable situations by walking away, valuing her happiness and well-being over dependency on others for support and validation.
Tag: adulting
Absentee relationships
As we age, our idea about relationships evolves, leading us to see “Absentee Relationships,” where friends only engage during favourable times, raising questions about true support and connection.
Righting wrongs with personal policies
Although I am not a fast learner when it comes to matters of life, what I have learned from this book is, it’s important to define personal policies. I already have one. This article is about winding my way to define the second one.
Friendships when you’re an adult
I was a very popular person when I was younger and delighted in making friends. In hindsight, I realize that my friendships were my world and frankly a much too important part of my identity.
My right is your right: is that a valid expectation?
As societal norms increasingly dictate individual choices, genuine personal experiences are valued less. The push for standardisation urges conformity instead of accepting diverse perspectives and authentic expressions.
Defining my ‘not available’ moments
Learning this, with the help of angry people, has been my biggest quest in recent years. They are too many in number. In fact, I was one of them few years ago—not too violent but I knew my temper wasn’t pleasing either.
Shame the shamers
The post discusses societal taboos surrounding divorce, miscarriage, and separation, highlighting the importance of accepting imperfections in relationships and encouraging individuals to pursue their own paths without judgement.
Cities that shaped me: Barrackpore
A reflection on conflicting feelings about short visits home, feeling disconnected from the roots while appreciating the diverse nature of it. It is a contrast between their evolving life and the stagnation of their hometown.
May, you be kind. May you be kind!
May has been a transformative month in my life, marked by significant highs and lows, including graduations, career beginnings, and personal challenges, yet it always brings unexpected surprises and valuable lessons.
Cities that shaped me: Delhi
A resident’s journey in Delhi/NCR highlights their transformation from fear to appreciation, noting the city’s unique rawness, cultural richness, and the strength gained through challenges over years.