Although I am not a fast learner when it comes to matters of life, what I have learned from this book is, it’s important to define personal policies. I already have one. This article is about winding my way to define the second one.
Friendships when you’re an adult
I was a very popular person when I was younger and delighted in making friends. In hindsight, I realize that my friendships were my world and frankly a much too important part of my identity.
My right is your right: is that a valid expectation?
As societal norms increasingly dictate individual choices, genuine personal experiences are valued less. The push for standardisation urges conformity instead of accepting diverse perspectives and authentic expressions.
Pristine Pangong
A trip to Pangong Tso led to profound reflections and unforgettable experiences of peace. The beauty of the lakes, including Kyogar Tso and Tso Moriri, evoked a longing to revisit and cherish such serene moments.
Defining my ‘not available’ moments
Learning this, with the help of angry people, has been my biggest quest in recent years. They are too many in number. In fact, I was one of them few years ago—not too violent but I knew my temper wasn’t pleasing either.
Shame the shamers
The post discusses societal taboos surrounding divorce, miscarriage, and separation, highlighting the importance of accepting imperfections in relationships and encouraging individuals to pursue their own paths without judgement.
Where the mind is without fear
Rabindranath Tagore’s poem envisions a free, united India, highlighting contemporary issues of fear and conformity. It critiques societal barriers and advocates for open expression and genuine awakening to realise true freedom.
Cities that shaped me: Barrackpore
A reflection on conflicting feelings about short visits home, feeling disconnected from the roots while appreciating the diverse nature of it. It is a contrast between their evolving life and the stagnation of their hometown.
The faceless sadist
In a dark realm, a voice confronts a lost soul, reflecting on their past actions and moral failures. The dialogue reveals the struggle for self-identity and the significance of the soul in defining uniqueness.
May, you be kind. May you be kind!
May has been a transformative month in my life, marked by significant highs and lows, including graduations, career beginnings, and personal challenges, yet it always brings unexpected surprises and valuable lessons.